Category Archives: Personal Development

We live our lives in chains and never even know we have the key

I was doing some deep thinking on the drive home from work tonight about how we are often our own worst enemy. If something is not going right for you in your career, finances, health, or relationships chances are you … Continue reading

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How to use the relationship change analysis process

        Time to get under the microscope and test out the new relationship change analysis method I posted about yesterday. I am going to analyze my most recent relationship, a failed marriage from this year which is … Continue reading

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Relationship Change Analysis

When I was younger and more idealistic I assumed friendships and romantic relationships would go on indefinitely. I am not sure if this belief was due to being naively loyal or old fashion idealistic, most likely an intoxicating speedball like … Continue reading

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Reflecting back on the year that was and looking ahead to next year

I have been doing a lot of self reflection recently. I always tend to think black around New Year’s Day and make some grandiose plans for the year to come but this year is different. Despite still having massive holes … Continue reading

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Take time to teach day to day life lessons

I am blessed to have good friendly neighbors who go out of their way to help others. In a day and age where most people do not  know their neighbors or worse dislike them I am truly fortunate. Sometimes the … Continue reading

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How to train like a Spartan in pursuit of your life’s mission

The legend of the Spartan warrior has survived for centuries. Famous for their ability to wage war and fighting spirit no matter how long the odds, the Spartan ideal has survived the test of time and immortalized the 300 warriors … Continue reading

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How to conquer public speaking anxiety

Public speaking instills a sense of dread in many of us that rivals only death itself. The evolutionary instinct of fight or flight kicks in and many people seek to avoid speaking in public at all costs. It is possible … Continue reading

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Ode to Napoleon Hill

Napoleon Hill is the self help maestro every one of today’s gurus should pay homage to as they collect their millions by selling his recycled ideas. Anthony Robbins, Dr Phil,  and hundreds of corrupt prosperity gospel preachers should have to … Continue reading

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What is my life purpose?

What is the purpose of your life? Brilliant minds throughout history have thought about this topic and come to very different conclusions. Plato and Solomon thought the attainment of knowledge was the primary purpose. Aristotle focused on virtue and the … Continue reading

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