Category Archives: Mistakes Men Make

Wise man’s rebuttal to beautiful advice from a divorced man after 16 years of marriage

Marriages end and 80% of the time if it does it is the woman’s fault. Yes, I have the balls to say it and it is true. Men are mostly easy going and in it for the duration like lambs … Continue reading

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Are men allowed to play fight with their sons anymore?

How many dads really give their sons a good play fight these days? Are you training him to be a warrior or are you afraid your wife and society won’t like that? Afraid he will get hurt? Fear does not … Continue reading

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Marriage advice for my recently engaged friend

My friend’s getting married. Just got word that a buddy of mine just got engaged during the holiday season. A lot of engagements go down over the holidays. People are feeling festive, get in a romantic mood or perhaps its … Continue reading

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Hypergamy can be a game of inches

When you think of hypergamy you probably think of a woman trading up from a dutiful beta male provider to a a high status male who significantly upgrades her standard of living, putting her on eassssy street. This is a … Continue reading

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Are you a bad person if you let someone you love fail because it benefits you?

The Mad Men season finale was a great end to the season and my favorite moment of the show got me wondering about the question posed in this post’s title. Are you a bad person if you let someone you … Continue reading

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Have you become too comfortable?

What images come to your mind when you think of being comfortable? I think of an Old Navy commercial, not getting out of bed on a winter or rainy day and watching movies all day wrapped warmly in what was … Continue reading

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Your ex wasn’t so great after all (newsflash)

No, I haven’t sampled your ex recently (unless her name is Amber) but it is a general rule of life as constant as gravity keeping you on the earth. Your ex isn’t so great or they wouldn’t be your ex. … Continue reading

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Marriage is bigger than the Beatles – Some lads are just fools for marriage

            I heard the news today oh boy About a foolish lad who just married again A crowd of people turned away but I just had to look Having already seen that book I’d love … Continue reading

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How to deal with having a crappy father

I am usually too busy doing things to think about how my life would have been different if I was not lucky/blessed to have a great family. I am fortunate to have a great example of a father, one that … Continue reading

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Don’t press your luck with a DUI

The game show Press Your Luck was one of my favorite sick day treats while growing up. I loved watching how far contestants would push it risking a whammy and all of their cash in the process. Too many people … Continue reading

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