Category Archives: Divorce

Anyone going through a divorce?

Any men out there going through a divorce? If you need some wisdom on how to approach the impending festivities I’d be happy to lend a some counsel. This offer is to help be your Sun Tzu in the process … Continue reading

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Taking the bullet when it isn’t yours to take?

I understand it is healthy for a man to take a look in the mirror and see how he can improve for the future based on previous experience. But sometimes this goes to far into letting another responsible adult off … Continue reading

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How do you find love if you are focused on protecting against divorce?

A new poster to one of my old divorce threads asked an interesting question “How does a man find love if you are focused on protecting against divorce?” My reflex reaction was that what followed was going to be a … Continue reading

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Wise man’s rebuttal to beautiful advice from a divorced man after 16 years of marriage

Marriages end and 80% of the time if it does it is the woman’s fault. Yes, I have the balls to say it and it is true. Men are mostly easy going and in it for the duration like lambs … Continue reading

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How to use social media during a divorce

Social media is all encompassing for many people. They eagerly log in even before the morning coffee is made and it is the last thing they do before hitting the sack. Relationship ending status changes are one of the more … Continue reading

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Divorce terms 101 – Get the Lingo down

Divorce is an extremely stressful situation and the legalese speak involved in the process can seem intimidating at first since most of you facing the prospects of divorce won’t be lawyers. One of the first things I did to prepare … Continue reading

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Hypergamy can be a game of inches

When you think of hypergamy you probably think of a woman trading up from a dutiful beta male provider to a a high status male who significantly upgrades her standard of living, putting her on eassssy street. This is a … Continue reading

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Divorcification – How women are getting rich from suckers

Kim Kardashian caught some well deserved flack some time ago for her flaky for profit marriage that was exposed for the sham that it was. Marriage for profit works for Hollywood starlets with sponsored weddings but it is only a … Continue reading

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Men are getting blindsided by divorce

I switched jobs not that long ago and was SHOCKED, SHOCKED JERRY (for my old school Seinfeld people) about the men in my department close to my age bracket that were all going through a recent divorce. It is safe … Continue reading

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Biggest divorce mistakes men make and how to avoid them

Common wisdom says that divorce is no picnic for either party and that both sides suffer  throughout the process. If that were the case we should reasonably expect divorce filing statistics to be relatively split across the genders but the … Continue reading

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