Man for the Ages

I’ll take “What’s not writing blog posts for 1000 Alex.” Can’t remember the last time I have put fingers to keyboard and composed something but there is a good reason for that. I have been Ultra focused on career growth trying to accelerate the trajectory to reach my goals in an exciting field that is undergoing explosive growth right now. Developing a 3 year plan, setting the foundation for a power move in the near future real exciting stuff.

I have also been a lot less interested in the dominant topics that the manosphere has been talking about lately. Real tired of reading about “gamer gate”, “false rape charges” and other nonsense that feels like a total distraction. Blogs that have focused on these topics have helped me whittle down my overwhelming RSS reader to a more manageable level and reclaim that time towards productive uses. I plan to reorient my online experience back to the items that I do care about which are self growth, launching a power career, and raising kids to excel in life.

Men and women are fundamentally different but each have the right to pursue what makes them happy in life. I believe this and think most other people probably do too although some wanna be radical non-thinkers may try to challenge the first part.

I could respect the above arrangement if both sexes were held accountable for their actions in a consistent manner but this is fundamentally not the case. It can not ALWAYS be a man’s fault when a woman makes a choice and it does not work out in her favor. It can not ALWAYS be ok for a women but not for a man when the script gets flipped. Here are some common examples of this nonsense that I hear many women embrace when it is in their advantage:

• Men should put himself in danger for any woman
• Men should still put himself in danger when the woman helped escalated a situation and make it dangerous
• Men should never approach women if he isn’t sure she is interested, its harassment!
• Men should always approach a woman don’t be a coward!
• Men shouldn’t ask for so much sex that is all he wants
• Men should always want sex after all she’s desirable. There must be something wrong with him (physical, mental, gay)
• Men should pay for dates
• Men shouldn’t expect anything for paying for a date.
• Men shouldn’t be nice guys that’s creepy!
• Men shouldn’t be jerks that’s not nice!

The list goes on and on. I understand everything is dependent on the situation and who is doing the gesture but the whole thing is just entirely nuts. This in a nutshell is why I consider myself red pill. It is not because I want to bang lots of chicks or don’t like my old self. It’s not because I am angry. It’s because I see the fundamental nonsense in the unmerited expectations that many women and a lot of society place on a man. I am not MGTOW but I do believe men should have rights and I am focused on self improvement and living life by my terms, other people’s expectations be damned.

Women in their upper 30s+ that should be thanking their lucky stars want freedom. This shows you how distorted the current sexual/marriage market is. Assets declining in value want freedom to explore. Is the answer to nip it in the bud or to instead slyly begin planning to optimize your own exit strategy? Start getting in better shape. Splurge and spend your money on a better wardrobe and things you want. Start building your emergency fund which only you can access. Stop sacrificing your life for the good of everyone else martyrdom only makes sense if you think 99 virgins are waiting for you. They  aren’t, just one depreciating woman who should be grateful you stuck around but instead feels she can do better and wants freedom. If you love something (yourself) set it free and never settle a depreciating asset that thinks its market is booming.